General musings

  • Giving thanks …

    Things I have to be grateful for this Thanksgiving:

    1. My family, significant other, and friends.

    2. My health and general well-being, and that of those I love.

    3. The kindness, generosity, and valor of others, whether it’s the troops overseas, police and firemen here at home, or the woman at the mall who holds the door open for you when your arms are full of bags.

    4. The fact that my dream of being a published author came true this year. Well, sort of. The book won’t be out until May 2007, but it’s in the works right now. 

    Realizing a dream is a wonderful thing. I hope everyone gets to experience it in their lifetime, especially if you’re a writer. There’s nothing better than getting that call when an agent or editor tells you that you sold your first book. Here’s to my agent, Kelly, for believing in Karma Girl and making it happen.

    5. The little things in life, from sleeping late to finding an extra $20 in my jeans’ pocket to eating Mom’s turkey on Thanksgiving. Little things mean more than you think.

    What about you? What are you grateful for this year? Inquiring minds want to know …

  • Bring on the turkey, baby

    Out of all the holidays on the calendar, Thanksgiving is definitely my favorite. 

    It’s about three things — food, family, and football — and it’s one of the simplest holidays around. All you have to do is cook a little bit (or a lot if you like), show up for the family shindig, eat too much, and spend the rest of the afternoon on the sofa in a semi-comatose state watching grown men fight over a football.

    It’s perfect. 

    There are no presents or cards or chocolates to buy at Thanksgiving. Nothing to wrap, no gift receipts to keep up with, no crowds to fight at the mall (although I would advise you to go to the grocery store early this week). It’s practically stress-free, especially if you’re only making a few dishes like me.

    I also just like the idea of taking a day to reflect on the many things that I have to be grateful for, instead of worrying whether my significant other will like the sweater I bought him for Christmas. (Probably not). Or how many family gatherings I can hit on Christmas Eve (current record is three). 

    What about you? Do you like Thanksgiving? Or are you already thinking about Christmas? Inquiring minds want to know …  

  • The rush is on …

    So, I went to the store yesterday and stocked up on Christmas supplies. Wrapping paper, tape, cards, bows. I’ve got enough for the whole family.

    I also bought some presents. People in my family get the same thing year after year. Not because I’m not creative when it comes to shopping, but because that’s what they really, really want. 

    One grandmother gets a gift card to Wal-Mart. Another receives her favorite Chantilly bath powders. My grandfather gets shaving soap. The mom receives syllacrostic puzzle books. My significant other gets books. And the list goes on …

    I know I’m being anal. After all, it’s only Nov. 5, but I’m seriously thinking about wrapping some of the stuff I bought yesterday.

    This year, more than ever, I’m feeling the pressure to get all my holiday shopping/decorating/baking done and out of the way. I just have so much other stuff going on — work, editing my latest book, a possible weekend trip, doctor’s appointments … The approach of the holidays is adding to my stress level.

    And, the truth is, I like to get stuff done ahead of time. Even as a kid, I’d do my assigned summer reading the week after school let out so I’d have the rest of the summer off to play and do whatever I wanted to. In college, I did assignments as soon as my professors gave them to me. At work, it’s the same way. I have to get things done before I can really enjoy what I’ve accomplished. The holidays are no different. When I get the tree up and most of the presents wrapped, that’s when I really relax and enjoy the spirit of the season.

    What about you? Do you do your holiday stuff early? Or wait until the last minute? Inquiring minds want to know …

  • To LASIK or not to LASIK …

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    So, I’m thinking about getting LASIK surgery. I’ve actually been thinking about it for a long time now and have finally worked up the nerve to have the consultations done to see if I’m a good candidate.

    Has anyone out there had the procedure done? Do you love it? Hate it? Inquiring minds want to know …

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    God’s going to get me …

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    I’ve heard horror stories about authors who get snarky comments about writing romance novels, but I’d never actually seen it happen.

    Until today.

    I’m sitting at a long table with a couple of other authors at the women’s expo I attended. Two women walk up and start talking to one of the authors about her books. The conversation goes something like this:

    “What do you write?” one of the women asks.

    “Romance,” the author replies, smiling proudly.

    The woman stares at her. “Do they have all that sex in them?”

    “Yes, my books are pretty steamy,” the author replies, still smiling.

    “God will get you for that,” the other woman chimes in, nodding her head.

    The two women put their names in the drawing for the goodie basket that the author is giving away and walk on.

    Evidently, God’s going to get us for writing about sex, but they can register for all the goodie baskets that they want to from us heathens.

    Oh my.

    These were not young women. They were probably married with grandkids by now. Odds are that they’ve probably had sex at some point in their lives.

    But they don’t want to read about it.

    That’s alright. That’s their choice.

    But don’t tell me I’m going to hell for it. 

    Why do some people think that writing about sex is evil? Why is that somehow worse than writing about serial killers and murderers and nuclear explosions that kill millions? I don’t understand how people can be so narrow-minded and judgmental.

    On the flip side, there were also two lovely women at the expo who were very enthusiastic romance fans. We all chatted about our favorite authors, and they got some pictures with the other authors.

    I hope to see those ladies again next year. I will gladly sign books and smile and chat with them. As for the other two, well, they won’t ever be getting a goodie basket from me — no matter how many times they register.

    What about you? Have you ever had someone make a rude comment about romance novels to you? Inquiring minds want to know …